Are You Original?

The essay on human interaction, how people are ‘molded,’ and how we understand another.

Of the origin of a person, human interaction is the base foundation of what a character is to become. No matter the circumstance — a person is developed, molded, and formed through time, and the ongoing communication. Socialization is why people change — is why people learn — is why people grow. Socialization is the foundation of all humans and is the reason for their becomings. In life people surely, and do, impact, mold, and form a body into the person they are to become.

“Friendships are unique relationships,” as said by Suzanne Degges-White Ph.D. All of us see a change in the people around us, and “[Friendship] support[s] the aspects of our identities.” Degges highlights how friends, among other relations, contribute to someone’s identity, and feelings “of familiarity.” Our feelings, amid other factors, play a crucial role, as a modern person, in our development.

I have watched many close companions of mine fall short of friendship. The people we interact among, surely change, mold, and remodel our ways of thinking. Relationships are voids, unless taken precaution, one can, and will, be absorbed into a new world — a new way of thinking — a new way of life.

Is it right we are persuaded so easily by others? Between the friends, I have come to lose, and the people of my past I have come to watch leave, these sorrow peers tend to end, by themselves, confined, and isolated. It is all too often one is taken into the closet and never let out. All too often a person you once knew is lost — gone.

One may argue; ‘we grow as individuals, and a person will not tear us to loss,’ and the statement can be genuine, only the complexities of human interactions outweigh one’s individual growth. We “all [have] had positive and negative experiences with [people],” as stated by Vivian Zayas — Psychology, College of Arts and Sciences. While it may seem you will not go off track, or be in the wrong friend groups, “Sometimes you fall out of sync, and that’s going to be encoded as negative experiences,” and our negative experiences, will develop us as different people — who see things differently. Our different selves, many times, can act differently, ultimately ruining previous relations.

In the formation of a person, communication between people continues to be the ultimate framework. Interactions can lead to loss, pain — suffering, or an exact opposite — joy, pleasure, or, happiness.

In the intercommunication of people, “the degree of positive or negative associations in a relationship… indicat[es]… of future behavior.” The overarching theme of human lifestyle continues to apply to the surroundings of the body.

Human interaction is the base foundation of what a character is to become. No person is one’s own, instead, a built tale, of a molded history, which a person had experienced. We change — with people — we change — with hope — we change — with our surroundings. Constructive, or damaging, like the wind and leaves, the leaf will never fly in his direction.

Citation

Swift, Jackie. “The Influence of Relationships.” Cornell Research, CornellResearch, 20 July 2018, research.cornell.edu/news-features/influence-relationships.

Hope you have enjoyed,

Have a good week,

As always,

keep on learning.

~ Owen R Thornton

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